Tuesday, 19 November 2013

Being SANE when it is ought to be INSANE



Most of the things that happens every day in our lives leads us to be insane. But the question that came to my mind is that, “How many of us can be sane in the insane situation?”


The disturbances that happens every day in our lives is nothing but it relates to the ups and downs of lives. Often we fail to keep our temper under our control. But its strange that lately I have been seeing a numerous people who h keeps their temper calm.They wins over every negative aura and stands out to be more stronger and more considerate & kind.


But what if there is a series of negative acts taking place around you and there you seem to stand as a mere audience because you can do nothing except to accept the facts. There is sudden depression in the mind while the brain helps to combat the situation and at that point the problem starts. The negativity has a stronger hold on our mind rather than the positivity.


There were pangs of aggressive rage that was working in mind when I saw her in the bank. Suddenly I was taken back to five years where I had the memory of she being rude after destroying the strongest part of my existence.


The question that remains unanswered today is, “Do my anger helps me in this situation?” “Do my rage helps me to prosper?” The question kept triggering my mind & I couldn’t calm myself down.I was taken back to the negative cage.
 

The gloominess had sunk in till eternity and I was in the office collating some data of my losses. Ultimately I felt that there is always a handful of happiness while there is a bag of sadness in each of us lives.
 
A bag is usually heavy to lift and it droops us down to ponder around the past. Nothing seems to be certain when the uncertainty knocks us down.But what we forget is that there is no added advantage when it comes to dwelling in past.While if we can move on then we create new memories to put the old behind the bars of past.Being mad in the situations which goes out of hand is the basic nature of a human being.But in midst of all turmoil we need to be sane ie calm.


But the things around me has changed and it has moved on in its own pace .I simply realize that I can’t force the deer to be tortoise and the tortoise to be tiger.A person cannot be good for everyone.I cant change the nature of a person.He/She will be the way she/he had been in his/her life.

After a dark deep world, there lies a huge open expanse of life which makes us live along the darkest tunnel of life.But its important to understand that after every darkness there is a gush of light that sways us and instigates us to take risk in life.Life teaches us to react and its always the mind that helps to maintain the peace of heart.

3 comments:

  1. its superb.... . a beautiful way of narrating graciously the emotional shatterings , tearing of heart to tears...... . just forgive her.if u expect the world to be fair with u bcoz u are fair with them .... its like expecting a lion not to eat u as u dont eat lion.just do two things : 1. wear the bullet proof jacket and 2. love all ... even the lion. u can tame the animals with love. grt write up. keep writing

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    1. Thank u so mc Subrata Uncle...trying to do the same ..bt it will take time..dat is fr sure...!!

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