A FRIEND....

We meet different kinds of people in different spheres of life. We cross from one step to another. We are bound by the rules of each episode of life. We cross the boundaries of childhood, school and then teenage before stepping in to the formal world of professionals. 

At a juncture when my career was to visit a new vision and I have been updating myself with new mission, I met a new person who is more mature than her age. Her words “I love myself because I am myself” made me think too.

She has a frequent mood swings with high intellect. A moving encyclopaedia with positive thought. Often ignorant people who believe that “First impression is the last impression” will suffer shock after knowing her.

The first impression on seeing her was that of a perfectionist striving to achieve the zenith. People have their own views on the first day. She was calm and a good listener from the first day indeed. A great sense of responsibility works when handed over with challenging jobs. She had the intrinsic quality of being patient, tolerant and a quick learner. With an ample of patience in her nature, she is a quick learner and an ever happy girl. 

She is younger to me but always had a one liner in her list “PLEASE TREAT ME EQUAL”. By “EQUAL” she means throwing of wrapper or making a voucher or carrying a file and the list runs long to the craziest small things. But it is the small things that help in judging a person and obviously the persona.

 She is easy to tackle but difficult to be judged, an awesome guide but a bad time manager. In short she is the person whom everyone can look up to when in distress. She has a thought of being nothing but still respecting herself in midst of all turmoil.

 Internet is not for face book or twitter for her. She never gets bore of anything and is always keeps busy reading, surfing, blogging, singing etc etc. Her interest starts from the books and ends at Olympics. She can easily be described as a moving Wikipedia. She has information of every latest article - whether it is food, clothes, books, gadgets.

She knows to deal with people & situations. She is an exact formal creature in the formal world. When it is partying with friends then it is the most informal her. With a sheer skill of positive motivating power she can bring a depressed being alive to life. Not a single negative word is spoken by her so she is the most loved person around. She is a perfectionist. One of her friends said to me “She knows where to do what and she is very particular about her behaviour in different places.”

 A child by heart, she is and gets happy of no reason. An unexpected discount makes her call a celebration with a scoop of ice-cream!! An indiscipline girl with who has partner in every little thing she does – let it be partying, drinking, studying, learning.

She hates walking in the slight drizzle even. But on that same rainy day she loves moving about and exploring the lanes to find fried chop and beguni. She never gets tire of walking. Hopping from one shop to find the perfect gift for her near ones is her peculiarity.

She finds no reason to be happy or sad. She is lady with high intellect. She tries to be the strongest but gets hurt at the smallest. She believes that nothing can bind her but gets bound by the words spoken to her with care. Her friends matter to her a lot and she cares for them in her own way. She knows exactly what to do with each of the person in her life to make them feel better.

Though she is a much younger fellow than me, she sometimes is more mature in her thoughts than I am. Every moment she knows what exactly is to be done. Though at times she has her own mental shortcomings but still she is good enough in handling the same. At some point she is thoughtful with the trifling matters. It is the patience that allows winning her friendship at last.

Moments has the largest part of someone`s life. A self obsessed person who has every reason to have an obsession about her own self. A little far from being a perfectionist. A friend who can be often said to be a “FRIEND IN NEED”