Relationships....

How do you define a relationship? Is it a complicated little stuff or does it makes the whole of the existence. It is impossible to define a relationship because it has different layers which add different taste and flavor to our life.

 

The person who gives an introduction of this small little blue planet is our parents. They nurture us from the small seedling to a sapling. Slowly we grow up to be young individuals but still our parents like caring for us like small kids. They have a different view altogether. We are and we will always remain kids in their eyes, we never grow up. They make our life special just by their existence. They teach us all the little things without which we are incomplete individuals. Though sometimes their excessive care makes us a bit annoyed but it is next to impossible to live without their care. 

Siblings, a package full of surprises. They are crazy people and to exist without them is next to impossible. The small little arguments, the interference, the love, the care, the scolding…the list runs long. They sometimes act as guardian and sometimes they are the small nursery kids. But in the long run, they become the most trusted partners in all crimes. They are the best playmates and the best people who are never judgmental. They stalk us. Most importantly they are the people who are responsible for most of the scolding, but still they are the best in life.

We are defined by the science as the most social being. Obviously we are step out of our house as we are 4-5 yrs old towards our first school, the jail. There we meet some crazy people like us and we become companions in every little thing we do in the school. We call them friends. They makes us realize that we alone can create our little impression on someone`s heart. They make us relax and with them we can be exactly be our self. Driving them little crazy sometimes with our crazy traits we make them a part of our integral small World. They laugh when we do great blunders and smiles affectionately when we achieve something worthwhile. Friends are the oxygen of life that helps us to live in our own way.

We step out of the cocoon of the teenage and tread on the path of our career. In this path also we meet people. Some are coeval, others are junior and some are older than us. But together they make a formal family. It is a place where a total different set of people working together towards the variable responsibility which is set to achieve the required target. Actually being a part altogether of the same family, the same workplace gives a feeling of responsibility. There are some who gives us a clear view of what kind of people we are and some becomes very good friends.

To sum up, every person exists with a defined relationship in our life to make it flavored in spices of different feeling. Life without relation means only loneliness. Every person who comes into our life is destined to teach us something. It is on our luck what exactly we learn from them.